My story or as I like to call this 'my incarnation' ...
It all started in Sydney , Australia
I was born in the early 1960s at St George Public Hospital in a place called Kogarah, a southern suburb of Sydney, NSW, Australia. I was the 2nd son of what would become a family of 4 kids (I have heard allegations about other siblings I have never met). We were poor and my childhood was far from normal, in some ways tragic yet in other ways exhilarating. Throughout life I was to discover so much of my past was intentionally hidden especially by my parents. I was also programmed to forget. Such is the life of a ritual abuse and MKUltra survivor.
The abuse started before birth and I was 2 months premature (my parents were already trying to kill each other - literally). After birth the abuse started very young and because my body was not safe at home, in order to survive as a child I had to escape my body and live in the spiritual realms. With the MKUltra experimentation and being dosed on LSD as a kid then that didn't become safe so I then had to find somewhere else to go to and so I lived in my imagination.
My mother adored my older brother, but as he was blond hair and blue eyes my father who had dark hair and green eyes, accused my mother of affairs despite him sleeping around everywhere.
In 2nd class (age 7) we moved to Mt Druitt. It was a public housing city built by the government in Western Sydney. 100,000 people, average age 11. We had meager possessions though Dad didn't care as he wasn't often there and looked after himself well. In third class we had to escape the violence and so went to a relatives for 3 months only to come back and find that Dad had given away everything we had which wasn't much, there wasn't even toilet paper left in the toilet.
My father cared only about himself. He always worked and had a good wage but it seemed to go on his clothes, his socialising and of course his beer. My siblings and I never seemed to have anything, basic food, basic clothes, no toys, little to no outings. Dad would come and go as he pleased and would disappear for extended periods of time during which time often we had no electricity, no car, no phone and we got cans of food and used clothes from charities. When Dad was in the house typically he would be demanding, nasty (he enjoyed hurting people including us kids), or if he came home drunk really violent. I was repeatedly beaten, whipped, bashed and numerous times he either threatened me or tried to kill me a little malnourished kid.
At around the age of 10 my parents took my siblings and I to Narrabeen Beach, a beach on the northern beaches of Sydney. The beach was closed due to dangerous surf and there were signs up everywhere saying no swimming. I a little kid from the western suburbs didn't know how to swim, just dog paddle. My father took my older brother Rick and I into the surf and when my father reached the rip he let me go into it. Very quickly I was swept up the beach and out towards the headland. He didn't come after me and my mother on the beach just watched. The waves were tumultuous and I remember being plunged into the depths and my lungs burning as I struggled to hold my breath. Thankfully a young lone surfer walking along the beach came to my rescue and put my onto his board which was picked up by a huge wave and again I was plunged into the depths. Thankfully he and I got washed up the beach, he was throwing up and I was exhausted. My mother told me off for not thanking him and I was bundled into the car and taken home. My parents wern't happy that I had survived.
At the age of 12 my mother took my younger siblings up to Tweed Heads where they were experimented on. While she was up there my father took Rick and I up near Govett's Leap to throw us off the cliffs. I remember walking along the path to the lookout with Dad, Rick and our dog Lucky. Rick and I wern't dressed for the mountain air and we had no food or drink. But there were too many people around so Dad gave up and brought us home again.
Another time while Rick was on crutches and unable to walk Dad took us to an inaccessible spot at Glenbrook in the Blue Mountains and put Rick next to a deadly brown snake. Thankfully it slithered off.
Outings were not normal for us and the only time we seemed to be taken anywhere was when they had nefarious intentions. Visitors also were not welcome to the house. However what helped Rick and I was typically we were told to get out of the house at breakfast and not allowed to come back in till the street lights came on, so we would disappear to friends farms, go down the river and get out in nature. We were little, skinny, malnourished kids and would try and find fruit in orchards or farms along the way.
At times I could take the abuse no more and screamed at my father who on each occasion subsequently tried to kill me. A brick thrown at my face and I just ducked in time, the solid oak six seater dining table thrown at me another time and another time his fists in my face telling me he would kill me unless I complied. Once when I confronted him he kept screaming at me over and over again 'you're insane, you're insane' as though he was trying to convince himself that I was. His level of disassociation at times was extreme. Like my mother they were incapable of taking responsibility for their behaviour and if confronted would typically resort to lying. Both my parents were seriously damaged people and not unlike the soldiers in the movie the Manchurian candidate.
By the mid 70s my parents marriage had run its course and then we 'progressed' into years of restraining orders against my violent father. All of a sudden with Dad gone there was pornographic material all around the house courtesy of my mother and strange men everywhere, many who she was sleeping with and many who she would boast to me were pedophiles.
With Dad gone my mother then also doubled down on me. She treated me like an outcast to the other 3 kids and I was typically excluded from everything and treated as worthless. As a teenager my mother grabbed me one day looked me in the eyes and told me she wished I was dead. Not long after that she told me she wanted me out of the house. I asked her where was I meant to go and she said she didn't care. The only place I had was the streets. She then tried to convince me I was insane and finally hauled me off to a psychiatrist who thankfully told her that she was the problem. That truth infuriated her even more and knew I had to get out of home for my own safety. But I needed to finish school in order to get into university. I worked part time at McDonalds to save up the money for uni, while trying to study for my HSC and deal with her trying to derail my ambitions while also abusing me for doing well at school. So I became quiet and made myself scarce and somehow, and miraculously got the grades to scrape into university.
So just after turning 18 and having my acceptance letter for University I gleefully left home. As I drove off with friends and my meager possessions my mother stood on the front verandah looking like an utter failure. I felt exhilarated and felt that now I could create the future I wanted. My sister later told me when my mother walked back inside she feigned tears and my sister said she thought 'you bitch, you are the one that drove him away'.
I was now living my dream now of putting myself through Uni. I was living with friends which was a struggle as I didn't know how to express my opinion as I hadn't been allowed to do so at home and when I had it had been life threatening. So I struggled and let people walk over me. I had massive anxiety issues and had to seat in the back seat of church, back seat of the bus, struggled walking across crossings because people looked at me and I hated being the centre of attention of groups. I didn't know why. After a year I moved again and this time in with some girls from church who were a lot more nurturing. That went well till the owner wanted their apartment back and so I had to move again. I was excelling at my studies and living off my savings and government support. Neither of my parents ever gave me a cent or were cared or were concerned about my studies or well being. My narcissistic father boasted at how good he was that his son was in Uni despite that I had cut him off completely and my mother continued trying to undermine me if ever I made an appearance so kept my distance and didn't visit her. Unbeknown to me she was exposing my younger siblings to all sorts of risks at the time.
Even away from home I felt like every day I was dragging a ball and chain of emotion around with me that was bigger than a room. One day I remember screaming "whats wrong with me". I could feel the trauma in my body but I couldn't place where it came from. At the same time I was totally petrified of anything sexual and would shake uncontrollably if anyone made advances towards me and so sexual interactions and relationships were impossible for me. Also I was so used to being hit by my mother so much if anyone near me even scratched their head I would instinctively duck and then feel mortified and embarrassed when I'd done so.
At age 19 I moved in with my older brother Rick at Bondi, a famous beach in Sydney. We got on well and for the first time in life I had someone I could genuinely call family in that he treated me with value. We laughed a lot and we both were in fitness. We cooked crazy meals and he had a lovely girlfriend Terri who was really nice to me. One day while at class in Uni I got called down the office and the police were waiting for me. Rick had been killed that morning and then the Police took me (not my parents) at age 20 to identify my brothers body at the morgue. I felt shattered into a million pieces. I was devastated. The police thought it was a huge joke. Through Ricks death I reconnected with my narcissistic parents again. My father blamed my mother for Ricks death but didn't say why. I had to arrange the funeral as they wouldn't stop screaming at each other at the funeral parlour. At the wake my mother said to relatives why couldn't it have been one of the other kids (me) that died instead of Rick. Rick died during the satanic week of sacrifice at age 22 (4) on the 22nd (4) of April (4th Month) 1982. In 2020 4 police officers died on the same day of the year that Rick died. A friend said it was likely a satanic ritual and that the Victorian Police were allegedly very involved in the occult. After Ricks death I moved in with relatives for a year and then moved to Coogee. I couldn't move back in with my mother she was so destructive and my father because of personal safety issues I did not continue any contact with.
Age 25 I got married and lived in southern Sydney beaches and with my wife where we got involved in the local church. Whilst at a church camp, incest memories surfaced with my father and I was totally devastated. When I told my younger brother who was with me on the camp as well he burst into tears and told me of all of his abuse, including sexual abuse from our parents. Two weeks later he came to me and claimed he had lied. I knew he hadn't, I knew my mother had got to him. At the same time both my younger siblings told me the same story of my mother taking them both to Tweed heads to be experimented on. Later they both tried to make out they had an identical dream.
Age 30 when my daughter was born I couldn't look at her because I had an overwhelming sense of death. I didn't understand why as I was sooo delighted to have her born as I loved being a Dad. Not long after more memories started flooding back of my father firmly holding my hand on a knife while I was a young 3 year old boy during the ritually sacrifice of a little 3 year old girl. My father then blamed me for her murder and told me I killed her. He and his mate Donny thought it was hilarious.
In my early thirties at a meeting for survivors of sexual abuse a woman came up to me and asked me did I know what Dissociative Identity Disorder was. I said no. She said her kids had it as a result of abuse by their father and as she explained what it was my body went into severe reactions. I ran from the room to the bathroom. I felt like I was going to shit myself and throw up at the same time. I alternated between fevers and shivering. I felt like I was going to pass out. I was going into a meltdown. I hid there for a while till I could make it to my car and then waited till I was safe enough to drive home. For the next 3 months I thought I had gone totally insane and threw myself into work as a distraction but I was hanging by a thread. All of a sudden the disconnected parts were aware of each other and I wasn't coping. I needed help and managed to find a therapist experienced in disassociation who helped me navigate the next 10 years without losing it.
Not long after the government advertised a program on the radio called Operation Paradox. I couldn't listen to it as it was too triggering however I felt that I needed to report the memories that were surfacing. I went to the local police station and they said it sounds like ritual satanic abuse. I was shocked, I didn't know what that was. Talking to friends I was given a contact in the Federal Police who helped with a letter to the NSW Homicide Squad. They turned up at the door with a carload of detectives (mild intimidation) and one came to the door with a huge folder under his arm, smirking to give me a card to call someone else in his department. It didn't feel good.
When I went into the Homicide Squad in Cleveland Street in Sydney. I was shaking. I waited and waited. After half an hour the officer who turned up at my door came out to reception smirking. He said the officer I was to see had to go to Glebe Morgue - where I had identified Rick's body. That was red flag one. He then led me to the lift where another officer turned up and as they walked into the lift he grabbed the other officers genitals and they both looked at me and laughed - red flag 2 - I was there over sexual abuse allegations. We then got out and the office floor was devoid of people - red flag 3. We then sat in a glass fronted office and I went through the list of murders, rapes, pedophilia, bashings etc that my father had done and he seemed unperturbed. He said that they needed to have me hypnotised to validate my testimony - red flag 4. I'd had enough so I told him I would think about it and left.
Naively I had thought I would get help from this in Government in having my father incarcerated so he couldn't commit any more crimes against children in particular but also against other adults as well. It was a huge shock as to how slimy and corrupt the police were and how eager they were are are to protect him.
Mt Druitt
We left Kogarah in 1969 when I was part way through 2nd class, aged 7 and we moved to Lethbridge Park a new suburb in a new public housing city called Mt Druitt. The roads, schools and shops were still being built but we had a small 4 bedroom fibro house instead of the tiny 2 bedroom terrace in Gray Street in Kogarah. Being a 'family' of 4 kids that helped. At one stage in Mt Druitt there were 100,000 people, average age 11, so there was no shortage of kids or friends. The media had no shame in stigmatising the area and the people in it often splashing derogatory headlines across their front pages about how second rate the people living there were. It weighed heavily on the kids self esteem.
My father did his usual disappearing acts at home whenever he wanted and when he was he was his nasty self or even nastier drunk.